How to Build Self Confidence by Singing in the Car

By Kurt Spelling

This article, as you may have guessed, is about how to build your self confidence by singing in the car.

There is a very specific way that you can utilize singing in the car for building up self confidence and I’ll explain it in a few moments. First, I want to point out the fact that singing in the car adds value to the world. Numerous movies have famous and hilarious scenes where the main characters are singing in their car with reckless abandon. The reason it adds value is because even if a person is laughing “at” the people singing, they are doing from a standpoint of relation.

We all relate to it on a very fundamental level because we’ve all been there before. It feels great to just let go and rock out! However, most of us have self consciousness issues that hold us back. What people really respect and where true confidence shines, is in raw, authentic emotions. It’s rare to see those in this world. That’s why men who are really in touch with themselves get laid, because their level of authenticity is unique and refreshing. Think of the rock star who is dancing wildly on stage. He’s not holding back a thing! It shows raw self confidence.

Now let’s get working on building your self confidence to the point where you live inside this paradigm!

The Car Singing Challenge:

This is something I’ve been doing for about a week now and find it awesome! What you do is throw on your favorite car rock out tunes and go for a cruise. Rock out the entire time, sing loudly, dance, groove, shake it, act like the retarded chick from those Nissan commercials a few years back, whatever! Just have some fun.

When you come to stop lights, make a particular effort to be over the top loud/animated. This WILL feel uncomfortable.

Now here is the real trick that will show you how to build self confidence.

Do not hide from the emotions that arise. It is our natural programming to move away from unwanted feelings and emotions. This comes from when we were babies and did not have the emotional wiring to handle it, we’d get overloaded very easily. While this is a very brief explanation of the concept (I go much more in-dept in my products!), here is the only basic thing you need to know.

Instead of ignoring the feelings of discomfort that arise, embrace them. Try to visualize the feeling in your body. It will most likely be in your chest or stomach. Examine it, and make the choice to be fully immersed in the feeling. Dissipate the energy of the emotion (energy in motion) by allowing yourself to fully feel it. This is building self confidence on a whole new level!

Try driving around for an hour and just goofing off. Think of the “Bohemian Rhapsody” scene in the movie Wayne’s World. ROCK!

By pushing your comfort level and allowing yourself to fully experience it, you will build self confidence. By exploring the emotions of discomfort that arise, you will increase your awareness and your ability to control your reality.

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