Good relationship Tips – Create Long Lasting Attraction

by Kurt Spelling

Today’s article is in a response to a reader who wants to know:

“How do you keep and increase attraction in the long term. If you’re having an exclusive relationship with a girl, how do you maintain that constant increasing of attraction and keep it fun?”

In this article I’ll be giving you good relationship tips on creating long lasting attraction, keeping your relationships fun, and how to keep it interesting in the long term. This is truly important, because things can only progress or digress, they can never stay the same.

If you’re relationship is not constantly increasing in love, fun, intimacy, affection, and support, it means that in some way or another, it’s digressing. To have successful relationships, you must learn these core fundamentals, so stay tuned!

The sure-fire way to continually increase attraction in your relationship is to continually be working on yourself. Stalling is not an option. If you’re always working on yourself, you’re enriching this planet with your presence and your personal expansion.

This will breed a good relationship because you will constantly increase attraction. As you constantly learn more about yourself, your partner will constantly learn more about you. You will grow and develop together, mutually progressing and supporting each other in their life long journey of self discovery.

Think about it. Why did this person become attracted to you to begin with?

They met you in a bar or social interaction, and got to have a couple hours interaction with you. So they saw this two hour long peek into who you are, and they found it to be very attractive. Well, you can’t possibly explain who you are as a person in an hour, so you go on some dates. Now twenty dates later, you guys are in an exclusive relationship.

Twenty dates multiplied by say three hours per date means you’ve never spent a whopping sixty hours together. They’ve seen sixty hours worth of who you are and what you stand for. If you’re the kind of person who’s cantered, knows who they are, and is working on achieving your desires, things are constantly changing. You’re constantly adapting and evolving.

I know I’m not the same person I was a year ago! So, if I had had a girlfriend for that past year, she would have had a whole new list of things to be attracted to me about. There’s a bunch of things I do now that I didn’t do a year ago because I’m always progressing.

So good relationships are easy to create when you are constantly working on yourself, following your passions and exploring this giant planet. We live in this massive world with more hobbies and interests than you can even imagine. Want some simple good relationship tips? Grab your girl and check out some new stuff together! Maybe you guys like kayaking, who knows if you’ve never tried.

The way a relationship goes bad and gets boring is when you stop putting in effort to enrich both of your realities. As soon you stop giving a crap about actually doing fun stuff together, that’s when your relationship is boring, and more importantly, that’s when YOU’RE boring.

If all you do in your relationship (no personal offense if this is you) is sit on the couch and watch TV together, have sex whenever you’re horney, and every once in a while go out for some dinner and a movie, then of course your relationship will get boring! How can that be fun forever? It can’t.

Then it starts to get boring, and when this happens you’ll start looking for stimulation. You start noticing things that annoy you about the relationship and it all begins to deteriorate. A good relationship must stay fresh and interesting.

Long term interest, attraction, and success in a relationship is about being awesome, as a person. A truly great relationship occurs when two really great people decide to be really great together.

Don’t ever stop doing the fun and interesting stuff I’m sure you did when you first started dating. She’s going to keep learning more about you. Everyday she’ll learn one new thing that will continue to increase her love and attraction for you.

My best good relationship tip is to understand that there’s always new stuff you guys can do together. Use groupons! Try new restaurants. Try new hobbies. Push your comfort levels together and enjoy learning more about what really makes each other tick. There’s a million ways to keep a relationship successful and interesting. It’s all about actually wanting to.

If you don’t want to, you might want to ask yourself a couple of questions about your lifestyle. Maybe you don’t need to be in a relationship with this person anymore, or maybe you still need to figure out your passions and interests. Either way, if you aren’t in an amazing relationship, you should definitely take the time to evaluate this.

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