How to Meet Women Everywhere – Enjoy the Process!

By Kurt Spelling

Some of my readers have been writing in with questions about how to meet women, specifically if you are not a fan of the bars and club scene. In this article I will give you a few tips on how to meet women everywhere you go simply by enjoying the process and going for it!

When deciding to proactively handle your love life, most men will begin going out to the bars as often as possible. A lot of them have no idea how to handle approaching a woman in these high pressure environments, especially if they aren’t used to the type of social scenes these places represent.

Bars and clubs have the highest concentration of single, beautiful girls in one venue. That is the biggest reason they are a great place to improve your skills. Also, they are loud and high pressure, which will force you to develop your confidence and vocal projection. For these reasons, going out to meet beautiful women in bars and clubs is good.

However, even if you are over 21, a bar may not be your preferred place to meet women. Everyone has different styles, tastes, and a different starting level of skill and confidence. It may be easier to start elsewhere.

Regardless of where you are meeting women, you must learn to relax your outcome orientation and just ENJOY the process. This is CRUCIAL. Please reread that sentence.

The more you embrace the moment and enjoy it, without a care for what results from the interaction, the more women you will have in your life. For some examples, and in an attempt to illustrate exactly what I mean, here is a list of random situations I can recall meeting women in “out of the box” ways.

Random Ways to Meet Women

1. Recently my friend constructed a sign while we were driving around town. He took a small piece of scrap paper out of the glove box and wrote on it “U R CUTE!! CALL ME 555-5555!!” We drove around handling our daily business, but anytime we pulled up next to a cute girl at a stop light or were stopped ourselves, he would flash the sign.

EVERY woman had a positive reaction to it. Smiles beamed across their faces. Roughly 25% of the women who were “signed” actually took down his number. Pretty fun and easy way to meet women in my opinion!

2. Back in college my friend who was a real natural with women pulled off a hilarious pick up. He saw this girl in the cafeteria that he thought was super cute. Now he could have just went up and introduced himself, but he was having fun with the situation and ENJOYING the process. He took a banana and carved in it “I <3 U” with his first name and phone number. Then as he was walking out of the cafeteria he walked by her and literally threw the banana at her!! She called him that same day haha.

3. I was eating out at a great sushi spot the other day when I noticed the hostess was absolutely gorgeous. So I sent our hot waitress (who we were chatting up a lot as well) over to her on a reconnaissance mission. I made it blatantly obvious that I had sent her over to see if she had a boyfriend or not and kept playful eye contact while they were interacting. When the waitress came over to tell me she didn’t, I took my next opportunity to go over with a very straightforward “Hi, I’m Kurt. I thought you were gorgeous and wanted to come say what’s up.” We exchanged numbers and have gone out a few times since.

These situations all occurred in completely different settings than bars/clubs. I just wanted to illustrate that women are everywhere, and if you want to know how to meet women, all you have to do is ask yourself “Where can I find women?”. It’s really that simple.

Also, by truly enjoying what you are doing to meet women, enjoying the moment without thoughts of past or future, you will bring SUCH a better energy to the interaction that it will make it easy to have the women LOVING you!

Bars and clubs are great for their concentration of beautiful women, but if you don’t enjoy yourself while out at them (or are too young) then start meeting women in places or situations you enjoy! And if you don’t enjoy life at all, well then your SOL buddy.

Learning how to meet women is not hard. They’re everywhere! By enjoying whatever you are doing to meet women, you will bring a lot more positive energy and value to your interactions. Also, by getting your creative juices flowing, you can come up with some pretty unique, hilarious, and interesting ways to start talking to the beautiful women you are truly after. It all comes down to just manning up and doing it!

If you are still working on that last part, manning up and talking to women, it’s imperative you take my 1-hour free seminar. If you’ve already done that, then the next step is to get your hands on the all the valuable information in my Simple Seduction system.

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