Pick Up Lines That Work – Do they Exist?
by Kurt Spelling
For the longest time, there has been one cliché question throughout the seduction community, more commonly asked and referred to than any other. What are the pick up lines that work?
What are some pick up lines for guys to use on girls to INSTANTLY get them wet, hot, attracted, and making out with you on the spot.
What is the magic pick up line that will score you massive points with the ladies?!
What is the absolute best pickup line?
Here is the long awaited answer. There isn’t one. There is no such thing as pick up lines that work. Sounds pretty harsh huh? Let me explain.
What does a pick up line convey? When you come over to a girl with a pre-conceived line to spit out at her, what does it say? It’s saying that you think the girl is so important and beautiful that you were willing to take the time to craft a pickup line in hopes that it would work and win her affection.
So what’s wrong with that? Well it conveys that you don’t think you were cool enough to just come say “hi”. It shows that you don’t have enough belief in your own personal value and self worth to embrace the mindset “I am enough”. You feel as though you need a pick up line to use on the girls in order to get them, so the previous must not be true.
So what pick up lines work? Really none. It’s much better to say something honest and straightforward like, “Hey you look like a lot of fun, I had to come meet you. What’s up, I’m Kurt!”
Now let me clarify one thing, this is not to say you can’t EVER use a pick up line. Pick up lines DO work. In fact, they ALL work. Once you have true core confidence, and you begin saying pick up lines not to try to SEDUCE her, but more to AMUSE yourself, that’s when they work.
That’s when they are funny, value adding, interesting ways to open conversation. But, this can ONLY be achieved after you have a complete detachment from the lame mindset of “What is a pick up line that works on girls. I need it to help me get laid”.
That’s when you can use pick up lines like “Are you tired? Cause you’ve been running through my mind all day!”, and she’ll just laugh. She won’t be offended. She won’t think that your a creep because you say it in way where you’re clearly joking and having a good time.
More importantly, you have no attachment to her reaction. You did it to amuse yourself. So now you know the full story behind pick up lines that work, and pick up lines that don’t. Really, they’re the same, and it’s your internal shift that must occur.
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