How to Seduce Women – One Important Realization
by Kurt Spelling
Today we’re going to talk about how to seduce really hot women. Primarily, we’re going to talk about how these women think and one important mindset that you absolutely must know.
The topic we’re about to discuss is almost exclusively found in westernized cultures. It is the biggest misunderstanding men have when trying to seduce beautiful women, and absolutely the worst way that our society is “shooting itself in the foot”, so to speak.
So what is this horrible problem?
We are programming hot girls to be anti-social and it’s getting worse by the year. Mainly, I’m writing this article so you can understand the trend, and stop sweating the small stuff.
You have to realize that it’s not always a problem inside. If you can’t seduce a woman, it many times has nothing to do with you or your abilities. Sometimes the girl’s just not cool. Sometimes she’s a bit messed up in the head and maybe by reading this article you’ll get some more insights into what I’m talking about.
Essentially what I’m discussing here is how hot girls have to go through their lives in this society. First off, they are hit on (poorly) all time, so they have a “bitch shield” up to help quickly and easily fend off the hordes of loser men who come up to them.
They simply don’t have the time to deal with these people so they are just closed off in order to avoid it.
It’s important to realize that when trying to seduce beautiful women, they are not being mean if they come off “bitchy” at first. They’re just being time efficient. They need to be standoffish at first to make sure that you have a set of balls and once they see that you have a set of balls, they’ll start relaxing back into their natural personality.
This is not the biggest problem though, and if you want to know how to seduce women you’ll absolutely have to get a handle on this next concept.
The problem is that really hot girls see celebrities like Paris Hilton for example, where there is this “coolness” to being a “bitch”. There’s this “coolness” to being anti-social. There’s this “coolness” to being too good for everyone else. This gets reinforced on a daily basis.
The problem is that guys see the same celebrity and declare “Wow, she’s so hot!”. It’s really force fed to us from the media. So now, you have this woman walking down the street with a little dog in her hand and her cell phone and she’s 100% tapped into her cell phone. She’s totally too cool for the world.
Then a guy see’s this, and from the same social media conditioning that made her act this way, he thinks she’s gorgeous. So he comes up to her and naturally, she blows him off.
That for her is like a little mental pat on the back. “Yes, I’m so hot.” And as she gets more of these pats on the back, she dives deeper into this disconnected state.
As she gets more disconnected from her own natural, non-judgmental, care free, spontaneous, beautiful femininity, she gets more disconnected from who she truly is. As she gets further disconnected from who she truly is, she gets more positive feedback from the brainwashed men approaching her. It’s an awful cycle.
As more men try to seduce her because of these signs, she furthers her disconnection from healthy socialization. She keeps furthering her disconnection from society as a whole and what you get by the time they’re 24 is a whiny social debutante, who is messed up in the head, inauthentic with herself, and inauthentic with her own emotion.
It’s stinks. It stinks for everyone. She’s got a painful disconnect in her relationships, and us men have just another super hot girl who we wish would be cool and fun, but isn’t.
Now, if you’re really looking to know how to seduce beautiful women, it’s important to realize, they are NOT broken forever. With the proper energy and know how, you can meet this woman and help bring her back to balance.
The more out of balance she is, the more in balance you must be to stabilize her. Girls’ realities are flighty. Guys’ realities are supposed to be strong and stable so you can draw her into you’re reality, but that’s a topic for a whole other article.
What I really want to talk about is the mindset of these hot girls and how you can utilize this knowledge for your own benefit.
I want to drive the point home that if you try to seduce a woman like this and fail, don’t sweat it! Most hot girls will be initially kind of standoffish, but it does not take long for them to pull a 180 as soon as they see that your reality is not dependent on her reactions.
You already know that you are super cool, you’re sexy as hell, you’re awesome! You have to have this mindset and it must be obvious that her reactions to you could never shake this truth from your core.
The frame of the interaction must be that you’re testing to see if she can hang out for a little while in your reality, which is awesome. Once she sees that’s the kind of world that you live in, she’ll start losing some this baggage and she’ll start getting drawn into your reality, your tempo, your chillness.
You should never use this as a stereotype or excuse to not approach a bombshell, but just recognize that some girls are very far gone. Some of the hottest girls I’ve ever met in my life are also the most messed in the head. It stinks and I hope they find love or happiness somewhere, but just recognize that it’s not necessarily something on you.
It’s not always that you don’t know how to seduce women.
Obviously, you can always work your approach better. You can always make yourself better at opening various types of girls and different personalities, but just recognize the hot girl factor (Paris Hilton type presence). It’s a cycle of anti-social behavior which they get rewarded for and so they embrace it.
Some of the hottest girls I’ve ever been with started off as one of the most annoying people I’ve ever met. Eventually though, I was able to draw them my reality and unlock they’re real behaviors.
Many of the most standoffish, harsh women, will become loving and compassionate once they are guided to it. If you want to know how to seduce women like this, it’s all about your energy.
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