Learn Seduction Fast – Hold Yourself Accountable
by Kurt Spelling
For some of you, this article will be very hard hitting. It can be tough to assimilate the concepts in this article into your every day life, but I promise that once you do, life will open up and become a sea of infinite possibilities. Whatever reality you desire will be yours. Whatever change in life you wish will seem not only possible, but inevitable. It all comes down to you.
First, let’s discuss the toughest part of change. The biggest barrier between any life change is overcoming the ego. Like Eckhart Tolle says, the ego sees every change as the death of itself and will fight hard to hold you in the same place. In order to change and learn seduction, you must be willing to look at yourself outside of your ego.
You must be willing to openly admit, without reservation, that there is something in you that you wish to change. You must be able to do this without making yourself wrong for it. It is what it is. But, you must also realize that you desire something different, and can actively work toward attaining it. If you want to seduce women and learn seduction, yet are currently terrible at it, you must be able to admit that!
By reading this, you most likely have already taken this important first step. Congratulate yourself for it!! 80% of all people who do self improvement, in any fashion, are women. Why? Because women have smaller egos and are much more willing to objectively look at themselves in this manner. Pat yourself on the back just for being a man who is willing to read seduction tips.
Now that we’re looking at ourselves and can see what it is that we want, we must realize the order of creation. You see, most people say they want more women or more money, and believe that if they had those things they would change.
“If I just had two or three awesome girls in my life, I’d be happy and outgoing and social all the time. I’d definitely be more confident and sure of myself.”
WRONG!
The order of creation is BE, do, have. This is something that has been taught in self help since the 60’s, and is proven true over and over again. It’s the most important seduction tip you could possibly read.
BE: Be the person who is great at seduction and knows how to seduce women.
DO: Do the things this person would do. (Go out to meet women, improve yourself, etc)
HAVE: Have the women.
It is NOT have, be, do, which is the fundamental mistake that most men will make. If this doesn’t make 100% sense, reread the last two paragraphs before moving on!
This ties in greatly to some of my other articles where I talk about how seduction is about YOU, and nobody else. Seduction starts and ends with you. It is a process of personal identity change. You are gradually reprogramming the negative social conditioning that caused you to stray from your natural, masculine, dominant, sexual self, and become whatever it is that is holding you back from a life abundant with women.
Once you’ve objectively looked at yourself (beyond ego), and recognized the fact that the order of creation is be-do-have, you are ready for the third and most powerful concept in this article.
EVERY problem and EVERY solution starts and ends within. Take a moment to reread this, and see what inner dialogues will immediately start. “Impossible, that teacher hated me and was going to give me an F no matter what. No way, I’m not the one who said “they needed space” in that last relationship!” Etc etc etc.
This is the part that comes hard hitting. Trust me, it was for me. It gets easier and more clearly true every single day of my life. By acknowledging that you are the cause of and solution to every single “problem” in life, you are FULLY empowered to kick life’s ass. I mean, think about this. You will NEVER again be a victim as long as you employ this mindset. Also, you’ll always be in control of your reality and everything occurring in it.
This can be a complicated thought process to get down. What it really boils down to is realizing that the majority of the time, the problem isn’t the problem. The REAL problem is who you are BEING toward the problem, how you are reacting.
Let’s take an example situation and see the thought process.
The other day my computer blew up. It just wouldn’t turn on. Awful!!! To many, this would be a problem. To me, it was just a thing that happened. Many people would spend about twenty minutes getting pissed off at the fact that it was happening. Then they’d call their friend and during the conversation spend five minutes complaining about how computers are so unreliable and all the files they’re going to be missing, etc etc etc. In this situation, you are both the waster of energy and CREATOR of the problem.
Recognize that all problems and all solutions lie within you. The problem is never the problem, but how you are reacting to it. Think about a few problems in your life. How could you change them through a different reactive energy? Can you start to see that maybe you’re the problem…and the solution?
Think about how you try to seduce women, or what types of seduction issues you are having currently. Can you see the same themes in that area of your life as well?
The real way to learn seduction fast is to hold yourself accountable. Be willing to look at yourself outside of ego and recognize that there are changes you wish to make. Once you’ve done that, acknowledge the order of creation as be-do-have and start working on BEING the man who has an abundance of women in his life. Lastly, empower yourself as the cause of AND solution to every single problem. By taking these three steps, you will learn seduction faster than previously possible. Also, you will straight up DOMINATE life. This is one of the biggest seduction tips I could possibly impart.
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